Proverbs 5:1

Outline:
I. \\#1:1-9\\ Introduction
 II. \\#1:10-9:18\\ - A Father’s Exhortations
    A. \\#Pro 1:10-21\\ Resist Peer Pressure
    B. \\#Pro 1:20-33\\ Wisdom Desires You
    C. \\#Pro 2:1-22\\ Seek Wisdom
    D. \\#Pro 3:1-35\\ Live Wisely
    E. \\#Pro 4:1-9:18\\ Various Exhortations
        1. \\#4:1-13\\ Wisdom
        2. \\#4:14-19\\ The Wicked
        3. \\#4:20-27\\ Stay on Track
        4. \\#5:1-14\\ The Strange Woman
III. \\#10:1-22:16\\ - Short Proverbs
 IV. \\#22:17-24:34\\ - Medium-Length Proverbs
  V. \\#25:1-29:27\\ - More Short Proverbs
 VI. \\#30:1-33\\ - Agur’s Proverbs
VII. \\#31:1-31\\ - King Lemuel’s Proverbs

The theme of this chapter is morality. This topic has already been
touched in \\#2:16-19\\, but this chapter enlarges those thoughts and
adds specific counsels on maintaining purity. Never has truth on this
topic been so badly needed among our youth!

\\#1:10-9:18\\ - Lengthy lessons (proverbs) (A Father’s Exhortations)
V. #Pro 4:1-8:36 Various Exhortations
    A. \\#5:1-14\\ The Strange Woman
        1. \\#1-2\\ Listen to my words.
            a. \\#1\\ The father continually admonishes his son on
                the importance of listening to what he is saying.
                (1) \\#1:8, 2:1, 3:1, 4:1, 20, 5:1, 7\\
                (2) In fact, every new discourse has begun with this
                     admonition.
            b. \\#2\\ Why?
                (1) That you may be able to exercise discretion.
                    (a) \\#Pro 1:4\\
                    (b) (Strong's 04209) "an understanding of evil"
                (2) That you may be able to speak with knowledge.
                    (a) That is, truthfully, based on the truth.
                    (b) We must remember that… "out of the abundance
                         of the heart the mouth speaketh."
                         \\#Matthew 12:34\\
        2. \\#3-6\\ Guard against the strange woman
            a. \\#3\\ Her words are tempting.
                (1) The strange woman is the immoral woman. It could
                     refer to the single act of immorality, but it is
                     more a reference to the adulteress and the
                     harlot which might indicate a regular practice.
                (2) Her lips (words) can tempt a man as surely as any
                     eatable treat (the honeycomb for example).
                (3) They can be easily swallowed and believed (like
                     oil) by the gullible male.
                (4) Her reasoning for wanting sexual relations are
                     not discussed but we might speculate.
                     (a) Some woman in this generation seem more
                          bridled by sexual lusts than their male
                          counterparts.
                     (b) Many times, girls and women seek the
                          affection of men this way because they
                          lacked the love and approval of a father
                          growing up.
                     (c) Often times women use what men want to get
                          the material items that they want.
                     (4) Whatever a woman’s reasoning it should be
                          noted that in this text she, as the female
                          praying mantis, is the tempter preying on
                          the unwitting male who is the victim. 
            b. \\#4-6\\ The consequences
                (1) \\#4\\ The end of the affair will be bitter
                     (wormwood) and painful (a sharp two-edged sword).
                (2) \\#5\\ The road she is on is death and hell, both
                     figuratively and literally.
                     (a) In the figurative sense, following her will
                          make one’s life miserable.  She is using
                          the man to get what she wants as surely as
                          the men use woman to get what they want.
                     (b) In the literal sense, with the many diseases
                          this lifestyle generates, such behavior
                          could lead to a premature death.
                     (c) In addition, the Bible proclaims those who
                          practice this sin are not of God.

1 Corinthians 6:9  Know ye not that the
unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God?
Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor
idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor
abusers of themselves with mankind.

                (3) \\#6\\ The consequences are not something the
                     tempted can figure out.
                     (a) I believe this verse is directed to one
                          being tempted.
                     (b) Do not waste your time trying to "ponder"
                          this pathway of life.
                     (c) The end of this sin is elusive (moveable).
                     (d) You cannot figure it out.
        c. \\#7-14\\ Do not go to the strange woman.
            a. \\#7\\ Listen to what I am saying.
                (1) The father continues to demand his children’s
                     attention.
                (2) This admonition starts another section.
                (3) Do not ignore what I have told you.
            b. \\#8\\ Do not go by the way of the strange woman.
                (1) Don’t go near her.  Plan your course another
                     direction.
                (2) And certainly, do not go into her house.
            c. \\#9-14\\ Unless you want the consequences:
                (1) \\#9\\ Lose your honor.
                (2) \\#9\\ Doom your life (years) to pain and
                     problems.
                (3) \\#10\\ Lose your wealth and work for someone
                     else’s household (child care and alimony).
                (4) \\#11\\ Subject yourself to sexually transmitted
                     diseases (i.e. "flesh and thy body are
                     consumed").
                (5) \\#11-14\\ Be filled with regret ("mourn at the
                     last"). 
                     (a) \\#12\\ Mourn that you hated and despised
                          truth. 
                     (b) \\#13\\ Mourn that you did not listen.
                     (c) \\#14\\ Mourn that while others had a good
                          life, you put yourself in the middle of
                          evil.
        d. \\#15-19\\  Solomon illustrated moral truth with water.
            a. \\#15\\ The cistern and well is the wife.  Stay with
                 your "OWN" wife.
            b. \\#16\\ The fountains and rivers are the children.
                Be fruitful and multiply (reproduce) is God’s
                command.
            c. \\#17\\ But let these children be the fruit of you
                 and your wife (thine own), not the byproduct of you
                 and a stranger.
            d. \\#18\\ Keep the blessings of God upon your children
                by rejoicing with the wife of your youth.
            e. \\#19\\ Seek all your pleasure with her.
        e. \\#20-23\\ The Lord will judge you for unfaithfulness.
            a. \\#20\\ Why would you turn to a stranger?  Of course
                there are reasons a man will justify his immorality.
                The question is asked not to get a response but to
                urge the man to think.
            b. \\#21\\ God is watching and considering what you do.
            c. \\#22\\ Sin shall take the law breaker and tie him up.
                Once entangled, it is difficult to untangled.
            d. \\#23\\ He will die (figuratively and literally) at
                the height of his foolishness.

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